20 Days of Abstinence - Day 17 - Choose Serenity

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"Do I want the hit or do I want the serenity?" --A friend of Anne Lamott's in Operating Instructions

Leave it to Anne Lamott - and her merry band of quotable friends - to tell it like it is. If you are feeling tempted today ask yourself this question: Do I want the hit or do I want the serenity?

If you need some support today, click here to read a great article on giving up drinking. Take each principle she outlines and apply it to whatever it is you are abstaining from. Having a plan can help improve your chances of success.


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