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I Think We're All Grown Now

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  "Our fear of death is all the greater when we have not dared to live...Daring to live means daring to die at each moment. But it also means daring to be born—daring to pass through important stages in life where the person you used to be dies, in order to make room for someone with a new view of the world." -- Arnaud Desjardins If you are in your forties like me you may find yourself wondering, Am I a grown up yet? Despite having passed various "adult" milestones - getting my driver's license, turning 18, going away to college, renting my first house, buying my first car, buying my first car with money that wasn't loaned to me by my parents, getting married, owning a house, having kids - most days I still feel like a young adult, waiting to be "all grown up." I think this is it. I'm not sure it gets any easier or that the answers are any clearer or that life makes any more sense at 55 than it does at 45 or than it did at 25 or 35,

On Hiatus

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Committing

“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.” -- William Hutchison Murray Many years ago Anne Lamott wrote a regular column on Salon.com . It was the first "blog" I followed faithfully and I looked forward to it every week. Then one day she announced that she was stopping. She had a book to write and n

Some thoughts on FEELINGS

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"Feelings, nothing more than feelings..." -- Morris Albert I can't think of the word feelings without hearing this song, but who knew it was sung by a guy??? I would have sworn it was Barbara Streisand or some other female diva. But no, it's this guy . (I also found this version by Nina Simone, which I think is pretty amazing.) Anyway, my Guides wanted to talk about FEELINGS today. Here's what they had to say:  Enjoy all of your feelings, not just those you have labeled 'good.' When you stop and really feel them, all emotions feel good. Think about it. Doesn't it feel good to feel sad sometimes? Or to feel the rush of anger? The exhilaration of joy? The bubbling up of excitement? Do you allow yourself to truly feel all of your feelings or do you tamp some of them down? Label them 'bad' or 'evil' or 'too much?' Acting on your feelings is a different matter entirely. It is not okay to lash out in anger or shame someon

Some thoughts on TRUST.

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A friend of my son's taking the leap.  "Trust is an all-in, two feet off the ground leap into the abyss." --The Akashic Records I had a realization about trust the other day, that what I have been experiencing as trust is not trust at all, but merely confidence. Confidence in life's propensity and probability to continue along as it has for the past forty-five years, bringing me mostly good, mostly ease, mostly luck. I realized, standing at my kitchen sink washing dishes, that this isn't trust at all and I decided to investigate the notion of trust a little further. So I asked my Guides, through the Akashic Records , about Trust. Here is what they had to say: Trust is believing in the power for good despite what you see before you. It is believing in hope when all is despair, it is believing in love when surrounded by hate, it is believing in the positive when all that is presenting itself is the opposite. You have all been in this place - some i

The Root of the Root of your own Self

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"How long will you suffer at the hands of non-existent things? Return to the root of the root of your own self." --Rumi You can always count on Rumi to tell it like it is. We suffer so much at the hands of the non-existent things in our lives: the maybes, the what-ifs, the "I don't knows." I don't know about you, but I am sick to death of it. I want to get off this roller-coaster ride of thoughts and emotions and live in the beating of my heart, in the whisper of my breath, in the brief bliss of this very moment. I have almost no idea how to do this, but I feel like my all of these quotations, these little bits of wisdom from those who have gone before, have been a series of breadcrumbs, showing me the way. And I just have to follow them. Back home. To the root of the root of my own self.

An Easter Lesson

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"What happens when we don't take our pain, our pleasures and our mortality seriously? If we can't honor and embrace the disappointments as well as the 'successes' in our lives? We overcompensate. We take [ourselves] much too seriously. We fall out of balance." -- John Lee from his book, Writing from the Body   On Easter Sunday we had the fam over for lunch after church. "The Fam" this particular Sunday included three grandparents, four aunts and uncles, and four cousins between the ages of ten and fifteen. My younger son wanted to provide some entertainment for the cousins and decided we should have a scavenger hunt.  He got the idea from an episode of The Big Bang Theory, which we had watched earlier that week. In the episode entitled, "The Scavenger Vortex," Raj plans a scavenger hunt for his friends in which they solve puzzles and follow clues in order to find a prize. In Raj's version, the prize was a gold coin and, as

Happy Earth Day!

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"The sun shines not on us but in us. The rivers flow not past, but through us, thrilling, tingling, vibrating every fiber and cell of the substance of our bodies, making them glide and sing." --Scottish-American naturalist, author and wildlife preservationist, John Muir I'm back from ten days of rest - that turned into twenty - having enjoyed a trip to Paris , a "do-nothing" Spring Break week with my kids, and the full moon lunar eclipse . I don't know about you, but it knocked me on my ass for a day or two. Can't wait to see what the solar eclipse later this month will bring. Whatever it is, I am ready and looking forward to it! May you have time today to enjoy this beautiful Earth that we live on and may you let the sun shine in you and the rivers flow through you. Happy Earth Day!

10 Days of REST.

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"When you need to rest, rest fully, completely and without guilt. Your earthy bodies are made to require it because it is good for your SOUL."   --From The Akashic Records I have thoroughly enjoyed the past 90 days spent focusing on forgiveness, love and gratitude and hope you have too. And now it is time for me to take a rest. I will be taking at least ten days off from writing so I will see you sometime after April 10th. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy this bit of resting wisdom from the Akashic Records. Peace.

The good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful

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"Give thanks for everything, the good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful, for it is all good and worthy of praise." --From the Akashic Records Giving thanks for these things today: 1) Finishing a great book ( The Orphan Master's Son ) 2) A delicious family dinner and birthday celebration. 3) For these past thirty days and the opportunity to focus on gratitude and for all of you who have taken part and joined in. Thank you!

Pain is an Invitation

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"Pain is an invitation to dive deeper into the human experience, deeper into who you are. Give thanks for any experience of pain - past or present - that has taken you deeper into yourself." --From The Akashic Records Feeling much gratitude for these things today: 1) spring purging. I have been cleaning out my closet, my drawers, my phone, etc. and it feels so good! 2) A very L-O-N-G bath. 3) Watching Akeelah and the Bee with our latest couchsurfing guest. A lovely way to end her stay with us.

Listen with your Heart

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"Listen with your heart today and be grateful for the messages you receive from Spirit. They are for you and you alone." --From The Akashic Records Grateful for these things today: 1) the experience of going on a field trip with 300 sixth graders. it was exhausting, but also interesting and informative. 2) a nap (after the above :) 3) staying up way too late with my younger son working on, and then playing, his own board game.

Feel the Gratitude Pouring Down on You

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"The Universe is grateful for you today. Pause and feel the gratitude pouring down on you from above like rain falling from the sky." --From The Akashic Records Today I am grateful for: 1) receiving a pass for a free yoga class on our community's buy nothing group 2) gifting a rarely-used Razor scooter on the same site later the same day :) 3) family dinner

Expand Your Heart

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"Allow gratitude to fill and expand your heart. Focus on something you feel grateful for and feel your heart expand as your gratitude expands. " --From The Akashic Records Expanding my heart today: 1) a heart-felt gift from a traveler who is staying with us 2) staying with my younger son through a tough time 3) eating my favorite salad for dinner

Gratitude Comes from the ♥

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 "Gratitude comes from the heart, not the head. When looking for things to be grateful for look with your heart. What gratitude is being held in your heart today?" --From The Akashic Records I feel gratitude in my heart today for: 1) Finding a bottle of a discontinued after shave as a gift for a friend's husband. Thanks Universe and ebay ! 2) A productive day of writing and a walk in the sunshine without a coat. 3) Double gong meditation after kundalini yoga at Guru Gayatri Yoga & Meditation Center .

And now for something completely different.

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"Be grateful for every little thing today. Starting with the small things, you automatically appreciate the bigger gifts you have been given." --From The Akashic Records   I ran out of gratitude quotes this weekend. The one I used yesterday was the last one I had in my database. I panicked a little and then I remembered that I had asked The Universe to provide and I decided to trust that The Universe would.  During an Akashic Records reading for a friend last week I got an idea - why not ask the Records for some quotes about gratitude? What I received in my reading with the Masters, Teachers and Loved Ones is what I will be posting this week. I hope you will enjoy it and find it inspirational. Today I am grateful for: 1) The guidance and inspiration from my Masters, Teachers and Loved Ones through the Akashic Records. They always come through for me and I am so grateful. 2) Hearing " The Gambler " at church on Sunday. One thing I love about the

The Guest House

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  "This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond." -- RUMI Grateful for these things today: 1) A sub at yoga who taught an amazing class. 2) A six-kid play date so fun that not one of them asked for screen time, not even once. 3) Octopus bolongase at the new restaurant in the site of our wedding reception. The mingling of old and new happy memories.

Unexpected Angels

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 "I think you should be in gratitude." --The Universe via PCQ (Lawn Dude) Sometimes the Universe sends us messages via unexpected angels.  A couple of summers ago I was having one of "those" days - the kids were restless, the day seemed unusually long, the summer hot and endless - when our lawn guy showed up to mow.  He has been mowing our lawn for years now so if I am home I often go out and say "Hello," offer him something to drink or shoot the breeze for awhile.  On this particular day I started complaining about the day and my life. When I was done he took a look around - at the freshly mowed yard, large for a city neighborhood, at my kids playing on the stairs nearby, and dropped this load of wisdom on me right out the blue.  Immediately I realized he was right and it changed my whole day. Suddenly I saw my life through his eyes and it didn't look so bad. In fact, it was a life to be in gratitude for. And so I was.  M

Habits of Mind

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"It truly is not our circumstances that determine our happiness. It is our habits of mind that either allow all love and joy to flow to us or block us from receiving what our true heart desires." -- Lynnet McKenzie My gratefuls for today are: 1) This quote from The Secret Life of Walter Mitty :   "Beautiful things don't ask for attention." 2) A night out with a friend. 3) For my husband who took the kids and made #1 and #2 possible

Bearing the Unbearable

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"You breathe in gratitude, and you breathe it out, too. Once you learn how to do that, then you can bear someone who is unbearable."   --Anne Lamott This seemed like a good one on the heels of The Betty Lous ... Breathing is a great way to deal with a multitude of things that are difficult and I love this advice from Anne Lamott to use it to bear the unbearable. I think I will try this next time the kids are going nuts in the house - fighting, bouncing basketballs, running amok, leaving open doors and dirty socks in their wake. I am so profoundly grateful for them and find them so unbearable sometimes that this seems like the perfect way to balance these two truths. Thanks Anne, I am grateful for you! I am also grateful for: 1) Hot yoga on a COLD day. 2) A mini-foot rub from the yoga instructor during one of our resting periods. 3) That I didn't yell at the kids at dinnertime when they were complaining endlessly about what I had made. I just got up,

The Betty Lous

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"Be grateful for all the challenging people in your life–bosses, co-workers, in-laws, children, friends–because they're your greatest teachers. These relationships are difficult precisely because of your resistance to the lesson, which might be about compassion, self-worth, generosity, or unconditional love." --Amara Rose Betty Lou Parker*** was a girl in my youth group at church when I was in junior high school. She was my opposite in nearly every way - a short, blonde, prima donna who loved nothing more than to be in the spotlight. As a tall, dark-haired wallflower she made me feel invisible and I hated that feeling. So I fought back the only way I knew how, by competing with her. First, I befriended the preacher's daughter and made her my best friend. (She and Betty Lou had been friends - if not best friends - before I arrived.) Next, I started making friends with other kids in the group one-by-one. And finally, I ran against her in the election fo

The Tapestry of Life

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"Now that I know that every encounter, challenge, and situation is a spectacular thread in a tapestry, and that each represents and defines my life, I am deeply grateful for them all." --Wayne Dyer Wayne Dyer seems to agree with Crazy Mr. Parker that it is ALL worth being grateful for. What about you? Here's my list for today: 1) Getting all my s**t done today. It was a long list and should have been impossible, but somehow it all worked out. Thank you Universe! 2) Realizing that I am so done with anger - mine and other people's. 3) A healthy and delicious dinner - local handmade sausage, roasted vegetables and brown rice. [Seemingly useless scraps of paper become a work of art at the hands of my older son's third grade class. In the same way, the frustrating or un-enjoyable moments help to make up the tapestry of our lives.]

Practicing Gratitude - Praise God (Even when it makes no sense to do so....)

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"Praise God." --Crazy Mr. Parker A few years ago my sister told me about a sermon she had heard about Crazy Mr. Parker. Crazy Mr. Parker went around praising God all the time, no matter what. If you told him someone was sick he would say, "Praise God!" If you told him someone had just died he would say, "Praise God!" Good news, bad news, it didn't matter, Mr. Parker's response was always the same, "Praise God!" We decided that this would be a great spiritual practice, to walk around in the world praising God no matter what . If you stub your toe, praise God. If you lose your wallet, praise God. If you miss the bus, praise God. This seems more than a little bit crazy of the face of it, but the truth is we really have no idea what is a blessing and what is a curse in the moment that it happens. As in the Buddhist tale, " Maybe ," we often do not know until much later that what looked like bad luck was actually a blessing

Grateful for the Light

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"Have gratitude for the light - in your body and in your life - in spite of the areas that feel blocked. Look and feel underneath for what is true – the light – and feel gratitude for that." -- Grace Waters My gratefuls for today are: 1) Holding hands with my younger son for a few brief minutes while shopping. 2) Date nite massages at Two Smiling Feet . 3) The feeling of sadness that sometimes comes from telling the truth. [This photograph is of the Sun, shining through my fingers, reminding me to have gratitude for the light.]

Open Your Heart. Be Grateful!

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"Gratitude keeps your heart open." -- Mbali Creazzo Today I am grateful for: 1) My sister, for reminding me what is mine. 2) A snuggle and a movie with my boys. 3) Honeybee Gardens Tropical Lip Balm . The best EVER!

Enough

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  "A word I've come across a lot during the years is 'abundance'. Self-help books encourage us to welcome abundance into our lives. If we think abundant thoughts then abundance will automatically grace us. The dictionary tells me that abundance is, 'an extremely plentiful or oversufficient quantity or supply.' In these difficult financial times, is it realistic to expect abundance? Do we really need an 'oversufficient quantity'? I'm coming to feel pretty fond of the word 'enough'. Enough is saving the washing up water and putting it on the roses. It's appreciating every melting moment of a square of bitter chocolate. It's chanting for an extra half hour, even though you're dying for a cup of tea. It's having a terrible morning and then noticing those red berries on a walk to the post-box. Those red berries! Enough feels more realistic than endless abundance. Enough is satisfying. Enough is not-always-what-I&#

The Little Things

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  "It's the little things." --CJD My college roommate always used to say this when she was pleased with something that had happened. We had a lot of little things to be grateful for back then: a hot cup of tea and chocolate chip scones after a long night of studying, an IU basketball victory over the dreaded Illini (DENY!), or a rock-star parking spot near our favorite bar on a Saturday night. The wisdom still applies and is, it seems to me, what 30 Days of Gratitude is all about. Appreciating the little things each day that make life worth living.  My "little things" for today are: 1) Fran's gray salt dark chocolate caramels . 2) Catching up on two of my favorite food blogs: Gluten-free Girl and the Chef & Orangette . 3) Being done with jury duty. At least for this go-round. [The photograph is of our gorgeous Sun shining through the fall foliage on the IU Bloomington campus. Just one of the "little things" to be thank

Focusing on the Good

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"We have the opportunity every moment to focus on the good." -- Karen Lindvig Last night, in the middle of fixing dinner I got the call. "MOM! I NEED HELP!" When I went upstairs to see what my older son needed, I found him standing in the center of his room with the huge Fathead of Russell Wilson he had gotten for Christmas all tangled up in a sticky, messy ball. Normally this would be a yelling situation for me. Number one, I was in the middle of fixing dinner. Number two, Fatheads are not cheap. And number three, he had not used common sense in trying to do something so big without asking for help. But thankfully - and this is the first thing on my list of what I am grateful for today - one of my guides or The Universe or my Higher Self tapped me on the shoulder and invited me to do it differently this time. To focus on the good. My husband volunteered to finish making dinner and I set my sights on making this a positive learning experience for

What We Enjoy

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"Not what we have, but what we enjoy constitutes our abundance." -- John Petit-Senn Here are three things I have truly enjoyed today: 1) A ride, when I was running late. 2) Dark chocolate sea salt almonds. 3) A late night walk with a boy and a dog.

Practicing Gratitude - Say "Thank You"

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"If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, 'Thank you,' that would suffice." -- Meister Eckhart Another way to practice gratitude is to say "Thank You" to God or The Universe, or whatever name you give to your higher power, as you go about your day. When something good happens, or something you perceive as bad doesn't happen, say "Thank You" in the moment. Do this all day long, whenever you think of it. If you would like, extend this practice to those around you. Spread gratitude wherever you go thanking those who help you as you go about your day. If your kids eat all their breakfast say "Thank you," if your spouse unloads the dishwasher, say "Thank you." Say "Thank you," to the bus driver who gets you to work safely and to the deli counter worker who makes your lunch. Say "Thank you" as often as you remember and know that it is enough. Thank YOU for being here. Thank YOU for readi

Words of Gratitude from Stephen Tobolowsky

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"Do you know how lucky I am just to be sitting in this room on the wrong day? There are millions of actors around the world, in this country, who would love the opportunity to just sit in this couch on the wrong day and not see Ryan Murphy . Just to have the script of Glee in my hands. I was able to have a nice drive with my wife today, she's lovely, a good companion and now I get the opportunity to have a nice drive with her again tomorrow. The way I figure it, I'm the luckiest man in the world."  -- Stephen Tobolowsky , from The Tobolowsky Files , episode 16 S ometimes being in the wrong place at the wrong time is exactly where we are supposed to be.  We can never know for her how the Universe has decided to bless us, teach us, prosper us, or re-direct us.  All we can do is breathe, trust and be grateful.  Today I am grateful for: 1) A long  lie-in. 2) Legion of Boom rolls at Blue C Sushi with my sweetie. 3) A quirky indie rom com on Netfli

Think about these things

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Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. --Philippians 4:8 [This photograph was taken in a campground bathroom on our road trip last summer. I thought it was simply lovely and truly appreciated that someone had taken the time to make this relatively banal place a bit more homey.] My gratefuls for today are: 1) The courage to have a hard conversation 2) Homemade energy bars with dates, walnuts and chocolate chips 3) A cup of sweet strawberry sorbet after a big loss

3 Moments

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"Offer to those you love 3 simple moments everyday: AWARENESS-notice the beauty of each moment; WONDERMENT-let the beauty touch your heart; GRATITUDE-give thanks to God for the beauty you see." -- Father Daniel Syverstad I took this photograph during a recent snow storm in Seattle. It was a moment in which I felt each of these simple moments simultaneously. Aware, in wonderment and in gratitude. Today I am aware, in wonder and grateful for: 1) The calm before the storm. 2) My accountability partners, who keep me on track. 3) " How I Met Your Mother " - This show touches my heart and subtly reminds me to be the best version of myself. 

Living in Gratitude

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"Love the life you have..." --Ethan Hawke " Ash Wednesday " This is so easy to say, and so hard to do. With all of the messages out there telling us the things we could do or could see or could be or could buy, it is almost impossible to love the life you have fully, completely and right now. But that doesn't mean it isn't worth trying. And I think gratitude practice is one of the best ways. Which is not to say that stuff isn't coming up for me this month. Today while reading the paper I started to feel the consumer beast stirring within: Maybe I should go to that play. Maybe I should see that exhibit. Maybe I should read that book. My mind became greedy for more, More, MORE! Until I finally put the paper down and focused on what I was grateful for right here, right now. Here is what I came up with: 1) A hot cup of tea with milk. 2) A few hours of free time with nothing on the calendar. 3) A bus ride. While riding the bus to j

Just for Today

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"Just for today, do not worry. Just for today, do not anger.....[Just for today] show gratitude in everything" -- Mikao Usui I am grateful for: 1) My swim buddy who gets me to the pool even on days when I really, really don't want to go (like today....). 2) A very fruitful shopping spree at Value Village. 3) Cold water. There is nothing like drinking a glass of very cold water when you are very thirsty. It occurs to me today that many people around the world have no idea what this is like and it is something not to be taken for granted, but to be savored and enjoyed. 

The Perfect Combination

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"There is a special combination that seems to be perfect for this, which is love plus the combination of thanks and appreciation reflected in the English word gratitude. Just one of these is not enough. Love needs to be based in gratitude, and gratitude needs to be based in love . These two words together create the most important vibration." -- Masaru Emoto Today I am thankful for: 1) A walk in the sunshine after DAYS of rain. 2) Nutella-stuffed brown butter + sea salt chocolate chip cookies   3) Watching our dog crawl awkwardly over all other family members on the couch to get to me. (Sometimes it's just nice to know you're someone's favorite :)

Gratitude Expands

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"The more gratitude that we have for everyday basic things, that then expands into more and more things." -- Lee Anne Peters When I was working on gathering quotes for 30 Days of Gratitude , I realized quickly that I did not have thirty quotes about gratitude in my database yet. I started to worry and second-guess myself, maybe I should have picked a different focus for the month, one that I knew I could complete. What I heard immediately from The Universe was, "I will provide all the inspiration you need this month. Trust." And already I am seeing that this is true. Yesterday I posted a quote from Matthew McConaughey at the Oscars and today the quote comes from the Monthly Guidance for March from Lee Anne Peters of Temple of Balance . Gratitude quotes are springing up out of nowhere and I am certain that by the end of the month I will have more than I need to complete the thirty days. It's all about Trust. Trust that The Universe will provide.

And the Oscar for best quote about Gratitude goes to....

"It's a scientific fact that gratitude reciprocates." -- Matthew McConaughey  I am grateful for: 1) A hot bath with salt AND bubbles. 2) My warm winter coat - it's silver and shiny and it covers my butt and keeps it warm. 3) A bowl of soup, teeming with veggies. (Can you tell it was cold and rainy in Seattle yesterday?)

Lucky

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"Remember how LUCKY you are."  --The Universe to me in 2004.   Today I am grateful for: 1) My Life - I don't mean to start so big, but I just finished the book " Escape from Camp 14 ," a book about life in a North Korean Prison Camp. The life lived in these camps is unimaginably brutal; many of the children and adults born in these camps have never known anything else. Just to have been born in the Western world is something to be profoundly grateful for.  2) Family time on the couch - After my younger son's basketball game, we all ended up on the couch with many blankets and many books.  3) Sleep - I drank coffee during the day and did not sleep well the night before last. Lying down last night I could feel myself start to drift off immediately and I was so grateful to no longer be under the influence of caffeine. 

What's Next?

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"What if focusing on the good in our lives could lead to an increase in good?"   --Karen Lindvig, Senior Minister at Seattle Unity As 28 Days of Love began to wind down, I once again found myself asking the question, "What's next?" The word that kept rattling around in my brain was Gratitude . It made sense to me that Gratitude would come after Love, but I wasn't sure until I went to church last Sunday. Reverend Karen spoke about mirrors - how the world mirrors back to us our own internal state - and about how to shift things if what is being mirrored for you is not what you would like to see. She asked this question: "What if focusing on the good in our lives could lead to an increase in good?" And I knew that was my green light from The Universe for 30 Days of Gratitude. The practice is relatively easy, notice three things each day that you are grateful for.  That's it. Just notice three things. You can write them in a journal

Some Last Thoughts on Love

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  "In the end these things matter most: How well did you love? How fully did you love? How deeply did you learn to let go?" --Buddha Day 28. Here we are at the end of our month-long focus on love and I find myself with two weeks' worth of quotes still to go. A lot has been written about love. A LOT. And yet, it eludes many of us in one form or another. Some of us have romantic love, but not self-love. Some have self-love, but have yet to find their life partner. Others have the love of many friends, but long for the love of a family. Some of us could use more of all of the above. Whatever your situation, I hope that 28 Days of Love has helped you to deepen, grow and expand the love in your life. Before I call it good, I would like to share with you a few favorites among those quotes that didn't make it onto the blog before now. (Links to old posts, where available, are included.) "Kindness is love in action." --The Universe, to me, while wr

I don't know you, but I love you.

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"I love you. I don't know you, but I love you." --Lydia at Unity of Burbank The Universe is always giving us opportunities to learn and to grow and to "walk our talk," which is why it should have come to no surprise that this month has been full of opportunities for me to love when that was not my first instinct. Last Sunday at church for instance. As I approached the pews there was a woman standing in the aisle waiting for someone to join her before she sat down. I chose one of three or four empty pews nearby and sat down. When her friend had joined her, she slid into the aisle right next to me and sat down. "Ugh. Doesn't she know the empty bus seat rule ?" I thought to myself. It got worse a few seconds later when I realized she had a cold. Ah-choo! She was sneezing and sucking on cough drops and smelled like menthol from - I assume - some vapor rub. And I was off. Oh, great. Now I'm going to have to shake her hand and t